Our WHOLENESS

Our WHOLENESS
We are ALL seeking peace and a deeper understanding of how our everyday life factors into the WHOLE of our existence. But, we get side tracked as we navigate the changes around us. We are in the throws of colder and changing weather. Thanksgiving will soon be upon us and the talk around us is often centered around being THANKFUL and in deep gratitude for all the wonderful things we “have” in this life. But, this is also the time of year where we begin to crave sunshine to keep our spirits in a positive direction. And yet we KNOW beyond a doubt that change is ALWAYS happening in our world and the sun will be out one day soon!
What if instead of worrying about lack we have in any given day, we ask ourselves, ” Are we allowing our WHOLE SELF into our existence into each day?” I LOVED the full moon this past weekend…thinking how THAT is like a symbol of our WHOLENESS. But, as wonderful as it is, we too often slice ourselves down to a half moon or even the sliver of a moon without realizing it. I KNOW we are all like the FULL moon but, I don’t always let the full moon shine!
I know I live my life in hopes of helping others and it does help me every single day to look back and feel like I have put a smile on someones face. We think of monetary gifts…which do make a difference in our world. BUT…I think there is great benefit to our WHOLE existence when we feel like we have helped another in a significant way. I know that healings and their effect on others is always in the forefront of my mind. I KNOW I can make a difference in someones life. But, I also have seen the benefits of conversation with someone who seems lonely or down. I have also felt the energy lifting from someone that needed just a simple smile and a thanks for something as simple as bagging my groceries. I already KNOW I am WHOLE just as I am right now today, typing this message to you…but there is a whole world of people out there waiting for compassion, love, and the understanding that they are ENOUGH just as they are! I’ve often asked myself as I am sure you have…HOW CAN I DO THAT kind of helping every day?
I knew that during my daily meditation I could ask any questions of God, my angels or guides. So, I did that. “HOW can I help people feel the peace and calm that comes from KNOWING they are WHOLE and ENOUGH just as they ARE?
Just a few days ago I received one of my daily Neale Donald Walsh…and I did a double take at the message. Oh my, my heart burst wide open. I always LOVE what Neale Donald Walsh shares with us. But this time, it was NOT what I was expecting after asking the Universe. Here is the message I got that day! As always he SIGNED Love, your friend, Neale
On this day of your life
Terry, I believe God wants you to know …
… that nobody needs your help.
I know, I know…this is a difficult one. But it is true. Yet
this does not mean no one wants your help, or that no one
could use your help. It simply means the thought that another
Aspect of Divinity is powerless without you is inaccurate.
Do not do something, therefore, because you think someone
else needs you. That only builds resentment. Do whatever
you do as a means of deciding, declaring, creating, and
experiencing who you are–and who you choose to be. Then
you will never feel victimized, powerless, or without choice.
Yes? You see how simple it all is? Get out of victimhood.
I had to re-read this too many times and really THINK through what these words were trying to tell me. Have I somehow put myself into the category of victimhood? What an eye opener and hard to swallow. Yet…do I sometimes feel trapped in a situation I wish I could change? “YES” Have I somehow not realized the Divinity of another human being I love with all my heart? And how easy it is to forget to embrace and realize the Divinity and uniqueness of ANY human being I come in contact with to “HELP”! But, you know what? I learned how all the emotions wrapped inside my heart can SO effect my thinking! So…my meditations occur daily without fail!
I am hoping you will also read Neale’s words and see if they have meaning for YOU too. That is why I am sharing my own experience with you. Perhaps they can help you somehow. The same day I also found some words to help me understand how VITALLY important a daily meditation practice really is. Without this, how easily my own life of helping others could slide into placing myself above another. This was a learning from my NDE so many years ago…we are ALL equal and ONE soul is never greater than another.
Meditation…Enhancing your brain function, from Nick Polizzi
- increased mental strength and ability to focus
- better memory, better cognitive skills, and more creativity
- the development of intuition
- a sharper mind that does a better job of processing information, making decisions, solving problems and ignoring distractions!
I accept his words and many others that also tell us how meditation actually alters the circuitry in our brain by changing the brain waves! ONWARD I will help others with a grateful heart FULL of LOVE for ALL!
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